Do you still have a candy in the jar ? well. note, if you want to take the candy  in the jar that you must enter by hand. The result? not all will be able to take. Even if you can pick it up, then your hands will not get out of the mouth of the jar. so, Take one or two candy, so you can get out more ...

I'm sure you  have a dreams. Remember some time before you graduated high school. Have you ever had a desire to go to college, or work, or go abroad? still remember your dreams? How many of your dreams ? You may have to answer 3, 5 or 10. Some of the others  answered more than 10 of dream lists




Dreams are meaningful to you. Your dreams will assist in directing your potential, allocate your time and encourage you to select a partner. In addition,  Dreams will help direct your life. Certainly, if you aspire to become doctors, what should you prepare? You should be able to graduate from high school and then choose the Faculty of Medicine. Odds you'll choose the Faculty of Public Economic, right? Similarly, if you want to have a family , then you must prepare yourself, choose a partner who supports this vision and a shared vision to sustain it. So, your choice is determined by your dreams.

Therefore, if you do not have dreams or aspirations yet, What do you really want? The following points can at least help you: happiness, love, religion, health, finances, profession, peace, respect,  descendants,  friendship / brotherhood (frienship), skills, education and hobbies.

Select and write above the 3-5 points you want to achieve in the next 1-2 years. Yes, you must select it in order to focus. Remember the candy in the  jar! Its difficult to take all candy from the jar at once.  So, choose an easy point,  make you fun and  powerful.

Hopefully you can focus to drive your life, your potential, and minset you. Remember, you should be only take one or two candies. However, if you've managed to pick it up, then there is no prohibition for you how many times you'll have take candies in the jar. After you succeed in your choice of 3-5 points, then there is no prohibition for you to take a rest, Remember  3-5 points only.   Create your dreams, focus and after a successful take and over again ..

be success!


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This month I also want to talk about what makes a person special. Now the term ‘special’ is used to refer to different kinds of people. From the concept of special needs to a special friend, the term is used quite regularly to mean different things in different contexts.

What I want to talk about here is the notion of what makes a person special to you. What is it about them that makes you describe them in such a affectionate and emphasised way.

We all have people who regard as ‘special’ to us and we, ourselves, are regarded as being special to other people too.
The term special either refers to ‘different’ or ‘exceptional’. Firstly, those people become special because we connect with them in some way different than everyone else. They are special because there is something about the way we interact or relate to them that is different. Secondly, they are special because there is something about them which makes them even more exceptional than the other people you know. For example, when we fall in love with someone, they become special to us. They become special because we do not feel this way about anybody else.


So, being special is something subjective and is dependent on how you are perceived by someone else. So what is the point? The point is to begin to become aware of all the special people in your life and decide to contact them and do something which stands out for them. Be extra thoughtful for them and do it because you want to do it. It could be reaching out to a friend that needs to talk or visiting someone who needs to be visited. It could be sending flowers from a secret admirer anonymously or it could be buying them a small gift.

When you are buying presents make the extra effort. Listen for what they say about what kinds of things they like and make every gift you give come primarily from the heart. It’s all about doing things for others because you want to help them… not for any other reason. It’s all about being thoughtful. Thoughtfulness makes you special. It makes you different. It makes you exceptional. It makes you special.

It is in the small acts, the little bit extra thought or effort we put into something that makes us different from the rest. It is true in business and it is true in life. So every time you are interacting with someone, decide if you want to be special and if you do… then make a little bit more of an effort or be a little more thoughtful.

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NLP (Neuro Linguistic Programming) is nice science and art to building our character, motivation and esteem. More people use this art and science to hlp their more success.

You will be know adventage and power this NLP after read these. Will you ?



NLP Gaining Wider Acceptance

Yet, despite the objections of some Islamic traditionalists, NLP appears to be gaining wider acceptance in the broader Islamic world community as an aid to business, health, teaching and best practices in communication.

Muslimah Shamsudin, for example, used NLP for two positive purposes: to strengthen her successful training and to facilitate her devout practice of Islam during a visit to Japan.

"NLP is how you make sense of your world and most importantly how to make it what you want it to be. ...Basically, in using NLP, you need to focus on the good things you want to happen. Then, you need to figure out how to achieve these goals, and finally, you follow the steps to achieve them.

"For example, I wanted to be able to pray at the right time wherever I was, so I identified the steps I needed to follow. My first step was to pray to Allah (the All Mighty God) so that my requirement could be performed anywhere and that the people I was making a request of would meet my need. Only after such prayers would I request a praying place.

"I used NLP to achieve my training too. Before starting, I envisioned myself going through a good training and completing it successfully. I planned the things and steps I needed to take. So although I encountered some problems, I managed to get through."

– Muslimah Shamsudin, Manager, Quality Secretariat of Human Resource Department at KTMB (Malaysian Railways). She has a Diploma in Transport from the University of Wales and was an East Japan Railway Culture Foundation trainee in 1997, studying human resources management. – Japan Railway & Transport Review No. 16 (pp.46–47)

Another example of NLP being used by Muslims for business in ways that apparently do not interfere with their spiritual practice of Islam, is that of Shaikh Isam Rajab, Imam of The Islamic Center of New Mexico.

"(He) was twice licensed for memorizing the entire quran. He has a certificate in NLP 'Neuro Linguistic Programming' [as a 'business interest'], and judged quranic competitions in Kuwait 3 times."

– Texas Dawah Annual Convention IV, "The Muslim Future - Challenges and Promises"

NLP is increasingly becoming a part of a liberal education for Muslims interested in the fields of education and counseling.

"Manal Soliman attended the American University in Cairo where she majored in Mass Communication and minored in Economics. After her graduation in 1987, she went on to complete a TESOL certificate from Trinity College UK, a counseling course at Aberdeen College, Scotland, obtained a Facilitator of Parenting Groups certificate from Parentline Plus UK and obtained lately a NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) diploma from the International NLP Training Association.

"An active member of the community, both at home and abroad, Manal was responsible for coordinating and running the Arab Women Religious Education Circle, Spital Mosque, Aberdeen, Scotland from Jan 2001 to June 2003.

"She has delivered many talks to non-Arab Muslims and converts on various topics in Islam, as well as sessions in a program for Muslim girls in Aberdeen, Scotland on various issues that concern Muslim teenagers living in the west. She also took part in the organization of many women and children Muslim activities and parties in Aberdeen as well as Cairo."

– IslamOnline.net, "Live Dialog"

NLP's health benefits are also increasingly recognized in the Muslim world:

[Bahrain]: "TWENTY-ONE girls suffering from hereditary blood diseases such as sickle cell anaemia, Glucose 6 Phosphate Dehydrogenase (G6PD) and beta thalassaemia say a new scheme launched earlier this year has made a vast improvement to their lives.

"The one-year scheme got underway in January and is being spearheaded by the Bahrain Women's Society (BWS)....

"'We have gradually brought their girls closer together. Now whenever any of them gets sick they all go to visit. This created stronger bonds between them.'

"Activities are conducted by a number of Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) trainers, psychiatrists and nutritionists, who have volunteered to co-operate on the project. The hope is that mothers and children on the scheme will now pass on their new knowledge to the rest of the community.

"...Mrs Al Saleh [the mother of a 12-year old girl enrolled in the programme] has attended a number of workshops and seminars organised under the new project.

"The last of those was a Neuro Linguistic Programming (NLP) workshop, Six Step Life Re-framing, by NLP trainer Mohammed Al Hamad.

"Thirty women, including society officials and guests, attended the event that specifically targeted mothers. It taught them ways of "re-programming" the way they think when dealing with their children.

"'The aim is to help them acquire a more positive attitude in dealing with their children's disease,' said Mr Al Hamad."

– The Gulf Daily News, Vol XXVIII NO. 181 Saturday 17 September 2005

NLP practitioner courses are often attended by, as well as trained by Muslims from around the world to learn and teach the skills of NLP for business, parenting and education.

While I would not presume to advise any Muslim on moral questions regarding NLP as it relates to Islam, clearly for some Muslims NLP is considered appropriate when used in a supporting role for their spiritual and/or secular practices.

Sufism and NLP

Sufism is the mystical branch of Islam. It originated in the 8th Century and focuses on “Fath Rabani" (Divine Awakening).

"In contrast to the legal-minded approach to Islam, Sufis emphasized spirituality as a way of knowing God."

– Ahmad S. Dallal

"O Lord, I, a beggar, ask of Thee more than a thousand kings may ask of Thee. Each one has something he needs to ask of Thee; I have come to ask Thee to give me Thyself."

– Abdullah Ansari of Herat (1006-1089)

Sufism was initially declared heretical by orthodox Islam but was eventually tolerated more widely so long as its adherents abided by Islamic laws.

In the words of Sufi teacher, Philippe de Vos, Sufism embraces approaches which "help to ease the pains of the heart and put us more in touch with the reality of our essence... Our disorders themselves are the raw material of our recovery."

In much the same way that NLP is compatible with other spiritual traditions, NLP can be useful in removing obstacles on the path to a greater spiritual connection. NLP facilitates self-discovery and aids focus during prayer or meditation. Fundamentally, NLP shares with many mystical traditions the observation that our internal processes have a great deal to do with our experience of the "outside" world and our interpretation of events in our lives.

"Whatever we perceive in the world around us tends to reflect who we are and what we care about most deeply, as in the old saying, 'When a thief sees a saint, all he sees are his pockets.'"

– Robert Frager, Heart, Self & Soul, The Sufi Psychology of Growth, Balance and Harmony

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